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DOUBLE STANDARDS

There is something about being female that is usually off sometimes. Being a woman is a beautiful thing. Nevertheless, women will never be judged with equal measure as men. Ever since the beginning of time, women have been viewed as the weaker sex. Why so??
In matters sexual, the order of the day is simple:
If a man is highly sexed he is virile
If a woman is, she is a nymphomaniac
With them its power,
With us its a disease!
Even the act of sex is called penetration….
Why don’t they call it ENCLOSURE??

I am in no way excusing women to be loose …thats unacceptable and I personally frown upon such behavior.
This is because there is a certain level of respect and decorum a lady should carry themselves with. Nakedness and the likes are just a no no… attention can be sought with a beautiful mind while still upholding your self worth and dignity. 
In this day and age it is clear not all females deserve the lady title. All because some have thrown their morals to the dogs. Its true that anything has a possibility of happening when womanhood ceases to be a protected occupation as it should be.
Despite all this….I believe women should be allowed to be judged by the same rule that society judges men.
Society judges women too much. They talk of all women as if they were fine ladies instead of rational creatures. Truth is…. none of us wants to be in calm waters all our lives.
Independent ladies irk men even though their egos would never admit it. Those ladies that feel they don’t need a man…who feel just as complete without a man as they would with one. The beautiful ones are in an even worse off place. Beauty provokes harrasment…and it always looks through a man’s eyes when deciding what to provoke.

The world is slowly changing to accommodate this new lease of energy from women.The suppression that once was is slowly fading . I thank the likes of Jane Austen for making me value how far we have come. Persuasion is coming into play. The men embracing this change will stand to be counted as heroes. This is because women who love themselves are threatening …but men who love real women …more so.
It is vain to expect virtue from women till they are in some degree independent of men. Nevertheless, even with modernity, growth and change …. it does not change the fact that there are things a man will get away with….simply because ….he is a man

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